It was a white board, one of those you’ll find in corporate meeting rooms all across the world. We had one in Carter’s room. I went upstairs, grabbed it, and came back down to sit next to him. We were in the midst of a rough few weeks. I remember hearing once that a sure way to break addictive behavior is to stop the pattern when it starts.
I told Carter, whenever he feels himself getting mad or sad to stop and write on the board and that Val promised to read it and address his feelings. The deal was, she could do the same with him. Now, instead of the conflict, they would communicate.
I had a fun time reading it after work and, overall, today was better.
We needed to break the pattern.
I just got home from a conversation with Dr. Kay Bower, founder of Many Rivers Learning Center. The faith-based non-profit provides after school and GED classes for children and adults. They have programs in art, computers, technology, homework help, and sports. Dr. Bower and her work is impacting and changing the families of north-western Reading with a new and passionate view of education. I am blessed and honored to be a part of it and donate my time and writing services.
My friend Pastor Fred Liggin, head of 3e Restoration Inc. posted a great discussion on Facebook today about Jesus standing with us in the stoning circle as our advocate. What if we viewed our role as Jesus followers to jump into the circle with him? How quick we pick up our stones (and our social media) and how slow we are to defend those in need. We demand to be heard before we protect and show love.
One of the most uncomfortable passages in the Bible: Those without sin cast the first stone. Don’t see that on too many motivational posters.
We need to break the pattern.
It is time for a shift, a change in the way we interact with the world around us, a change in education, missions, creativity and worship. It is time for a shift in, dare I say it, church.
From a weekly service to constant serving.
From mission trips to missions living.
From “worship” to high quality explosions of music, drama, lights, sounds, images and action all pointing to the most Divine Creator.
From a Pastor to Leaders equipping others to Go and Make Disciples of all the Nations.
From dropping our kids off to hear about God once a week to parenting with God leading us every minute.
From small groups to small actions of mobile and engaged faith.
From talking about it all to making it real.