Ever feel like you’ve missed the party?
As writers, we get this more often than we’d like to admit. We kick around a novel idea in our heads until the next big hit sounds too close for comfort. Our friends nail their first big publication when we’re still chasing ours. A family member lands a promotion.
We send out thirty submissions and, even with an acceptance, wonder about the twenty-nine others that rejected us. We look in the mirror and question if we’re doing the right thing. Life seems to flow past in rapids as we stand in the midst of the stream watching the reflection of the sun on the water.
The impact can range from annoying to paralyzing, yet there is a way out.
I met with a friend of mine this week, Brian Kelly, one of the minds working to make Reading a better place. He spoke about bringing people together to the table to have conversations that may be awkward. He said how everyone deserves a voice, even if they aren’t comfortable in the environment. Put the businessmen on the streets and let those on the streets spend some time in the boardrooms.
Let those supporting the gentrification of cities (get the poor out) meet with advocates for the homeless and start the dialogue.
It is an important lesson to carry over.
Every voice matters. Your voice matters.
When it seems like all the others are at the table already, there is a space for you. When it seems like the power and influence lies with everyone else, it is even more a reason to tell your story. When the weight of the past presses down and threatens you, put the words together and release them to the world.
Forget about timing.
There’s a saying in writing that, the moment you write for the current market, you’ll miss it. The moment you edit yourself in fear of outside opinions, scrap the paragraph and start again.
It also applies in life.
Believe in yourself. Believe in your story. Believe in your worth and know that you matter.
Forget about “timing” and focus on moving, doing, serving, loving, and giving. You be amazed at the results.