I recently finished the book Vicious by V.E. Schwab. She has a razor’s touch and style that carries you into a world of heroes, villains, shifting allegiances and every role in between. There are great lines in the book itself but one, an aside of descriptive observation, lives in my head.
A character is waiting for his girlfriend on their college campus. She writes,
“Eli was waiting on the building steps in the late afternoon with a cup of coffee in each hand. The dusk smelled like dead leaves and far-off fires; his breath escaped in small clouds as he held one of the coffees out to her, and she took it and slipped her arm through his again.”
Writing is powerful and these few sentences put me right there on the steps. The time, smell, breath and taste pulled me into the past. How many of you read that paragraph and were immersed in sensory feedback? I could smell the smoke and taste the coffee.
Fall puts me in the past, in the midst of slate skies and Friday Night Lights. The sound of the school band echoing down the streets of our home town, the nights where pumpkins and candles just start to wink through the darkness.
Time is a double-edged sword. It is that fire that never stops consuming our memories and expectations. It has a unique talent to absorb the past and future. I look at my sons and realize they’ll be looking back at me one day as teenagers, men, husbands and fathers. I look at Val and realize one day we’ll be holding hands as our grandchildren play in the yard. I look in the mirror and wonder what happened to that kid staring back. No debt, no regrets, no missed opportunities. Just chance and an open road of time.
And almost four decades later, here I am. God, that sentence scares me.
The smoke from far-off fires reminds us. Everything changes. Everything will burn and emerge a new creation. We will raise our boys until one day they’ll step out into this world on their own. We will keep on our path as it grows and changes.
In a way, things are the same. Yeah the weight of life is heavy. The choices we’ve made, good and bad, have shaped our story. Our love and mistakes as parents have helped to shape two boys into growing kids.
We are still that couple walking home from high school holding hands. We still stand at the edge of opportunity. Some days dusk seems closer than others.
And the sun still rises.
Every day is a chance for something more.