Below you’ll find another preview of my upcoming book about new life and second chances called The _nd. Enjoy!
…Fast forward to the Apostle Paul in his prime. He walks into cities and towns and they change. He makes speaking appearances and shakes up the establishment of the day. He sways the minds of the crowds as he defends this new faith movement. He writes one of the greatest dissertations of faith in recorded history through his letter to the Romans.
Buried in his gospels you find an interesting prayer.
He asks God to take a thorn from his side.
Afflictions take many forms. They can be physical, mental or spiritual. They can be old stories we tell ourselves, passed down through generations. They can be ghosts of failures that refuse to leave when we look in the mirror.
We all tell ourselves stories.
Imagine Paul’s narrative at this point. His life had changed directions. He was now front and center defending those he had chased. At night, when the voices quieted, he was faced with his affliction. He tells us that he prayed before to have it removed and yet it remained.
For God uses our afflictions and they keep our stories headed forward.
Our afflictions are necessary. I’ll take it one step further. Affliction s are required for us to complete our divine callings. We follow Jesus, the one taking on death to save our lives. Is there any reason why we’d expect safe passage? We are told to take up our crosses and follow him.
We are told that, in this world we will have troubles, but Jesus has overcome the world.
Paul writes that his affliction shapes his story. It is a constant reminder of grace. He needed to be blinded to truly see and start on his journey that would change the world and spread faith to the masses.
Often it seems like our wounds are the end.
When the movie Creed was released around Thanksgiving 2015, I went to see it with a friend of mine. Being from the Philadelphia area, any movies connected to the Rocky franchise are required viewing. In the movie, Michael B. Jordan plays Apollo’s Creed’s son.
Sylvester Stallone’s Rocky trains him to be a fighter and instills the attitude needed to win even though, in the end, he does not. He loses the championship fight but wins the hearts of the crowd. There is a scene where Jordan’s character is looking into the mirror. Stallone’s character states that your most important opponent, in the ring and in life, is the one in the mirror.
What do you see?
A father, son, husband, wife, mother or daughter? An employee? An executive? A pastor?
Do you see success or a failure?
More importantly, what do you hear when you look in the mirror? The voices are never silent. Do you hear a parent’s voice telling you that you failed? That you will never amount to anything? Do you hear language that hurts coming from someone you love?
Or do you hear the truth coming from the promises of the Bible?
One of the hardest things you’ll face is a calling to be generative. You may have grown up without a father and now, years later, you are looking at an expecting wife and a little boy who will change your world when he arrives. How do you become a father without a template?
You may be called to start a business or ministry in a new area or part of the world.
We are called to create. It is part following the Creator of the Universe. We are called to stretch our horizons and discover new paths.
Blanket, Gas Pedal, Platform
Our wounds can play different roles in life. They can be blankets, gas pedals, or platforms.
Wounds are blankets when they hold us down. We take them on as our identity and define ourselves by our pain and suffering.
We become victims.
There is a difference between being a victim and becoming a victim. You cannot minimize the damage done by serious wounds whether physical or emotional. The issue is what you do with it. There is a way back, a journey home, a fresh start and new direction.
There is a way to overcome the darkness.
That is shifting your wounds from a blanket to a gas pedal.
Here is something that can change your life if you let it. Your experience, positive and negative, is unique to you. God places these wounds in our lives for a purpose and we must make the connection.
Suffered abuse? Find a small group of abuse survivors and contribute, standing with others facing the same reality. Struggled with addiction? Meet with someone to mentor at a local shelter or outreach agency. Dealt with poverty? Volunteer at a food pantry or consignment shop.
Our wounds are our radar. They steer us, and push us, towards those we can help with our stories. They set us in motion to create, support, and birth new movements.
They can also be our platform.
We build foundations on sturdy platforms and they are often shaped by our moments of hurt.
Check Paul’s experiences throughout his life. Not every speaking stop was a pleasant one. He faced danger and violence at most turns, even dealing with a shipwreck. He did all this carrying his past and his affliction as constant reminder of the power of grace, change, and a second chance.
He built a strong platform without the benefit of internet or digital media. He shared his story, a collective story, of power that changes lives.
The gas pedal pushes us towards building our platform to tell our story.
We are all called to tell our story. It may not be in the form of a book but, make no mistake, you tell your story on a daily basis. It is seen through the eyes of your children, your friends and your loved ones. It is seen by the random people you meet every day.
Our actions always tell a story…