I’ve mentioned Donald Miller’s Storyline blog on here more than once and for good reason as I almost always get some selection of inspirational material. If you haven’t followed them yet, I recommend it.
This past week, there was a post about changing the narrative you are living. The writer told a story about a friend’s mother and this woman’s visit to her friend’s house. The friend complained that, when her mother was over, she “turned into a twelve-year-old again.” The writer continued to talk about growing up as an outsider and how she needed to overcome that to succeed in her creative efforts.
The post was up on Saturday and it has bounced around in my head since then.
How many of us are living old stories?
I feel like this past year has been a journey to break the hold of old stories on my life. I was not what you’d call an outsider as I had friends from different social groups. I was not, though, the popular kid. I didn’t jump at opportunities to show off. I wasn’t a sports star or an actor with the drama club.
Oral presentations scared me until I took a public speaking class in high school.
These stories carried over into my early 30’s and I feel the fight rising. It is only a conflict because the old stories still exist. Because the old part of my soul still stands on the sidelines content to be okay.
The time to be okay is over.
Change is possible if we allow ourselves to do it. How many of us avoid the difficult conversation about Jesus at the water cooler because we were rejected in the past? Because someone made fun of us for being different? How many let those with stronger wills influence our lives and the lives of our children? How many refuse to stand because we’ve been knocked down too much that it is just easier to stay there?
Do we avoid risk because we fear failure or success? Breaking apart or breaking the bonds that hold us down?
I pray this week is one of change for you. That you step out of your comfort zone and throw away the old stories impacting your life. Starting writing new ones and see what happens.